1. Reframe networking as a connection
Forget thinking of networking as a “transaction.” Instead, think of it as a way to connect with someone else and learn—whether that’s learning from their experiences in business or just understanding their personal journey. When you approach networking as a form of curiosity, it’s no longer a chore. Now, when I walk into a room, I’m not thinking about what these people can offer me. I’m thinking, What are the stories behind their lives? What drives their passion? By approaching it this way, I’ve found that networking is less about small talk and more about gaining perspective and building genuine connections.
2. Come as you are
When I first started going to conferences, I used to rehearse my elevator pitch down to the last word. I would lead with my job title and my offerings, and, of course, I’d end up connecting with people only interested in those things. But once I started sharing more of my story—how much I love birds, my senior dog, or my journey with anxiety—I noticed a shift. People connected with me as a person, not just with my job title. When I spoke at the United States Hispanic Chamber of Commerce conference in partnership with Nationwide, I started by sharing a little about myself, not just my work. And the conversations that followed were so much more meaningful. I left that conference with connections that felt real and deep, not just surface-level.
3. Know that you have something to offer, no matter what
I remember attending events and feeling a bit out of place because I wasn’t making seven or eight figures yet or didn’t have the biggest clients. But I realized that I still had something valuable to offer. Whether it’s a unique perspective, insights into growing on social media, or my experience as a Latina entrepreneur, there’s always something I can share. Don’t underestimate your value in the room. You belong there, and you have something worth sharing.
4. Follow up with intent
So, you’ve made a connection—now what? Don’t let the conversation end there. When I connect with people, I’ll say, “Follow up with me on email—I’d love to share more on ____ topic.” It’s a way to keep the conversation alive. I also keep resources on hand, whether it’s a PDF of strategies I’ve shared on stage or a list of tools that could help them. This intentional follow-up not only keeps the connection going but also gives you a chance to add value to their lives, which can open up doors for future collaboration.
5. Be selective with your spaces
While I believe that everyone has the right to enter any space they wish, it’s also important to be intentional about where you spend your time and energy. Some spaces are more welcoming than others, and it’s essential to find environments where you feel comfortable and valued. The right setting can make all the difference in the connections you make. I do not go to every event I’m invited to, and that’s okay.
6. Don’t forget to talk about your business
Yes, while I’m all about authentic connection, I also make a point to mention what I do. This isn’t about being “salesy”; it’s about proudly owning the fact that I am a business owner. A good strategy is to always keep recent accomplishments or upcoming plans in your back pocket –– for example, if someone asks what I’m excited about, I’ll share recent highlights—like my TV show or being selected as a 2024 Latina Visionary Voice of TikTok. Talking about your work shouldn’t feel forced; it should flow naturally as a part of who you are. These are some of the ways I’ve leveraged community and networking to build my business, but more importantly, they’ve helped me connect with people on a genuine level. Remember that networking isn’t just about growth—it’s about building connections with people who understand and support you.